Dear Christine,
The postoperative course after an extraction can vary considerably, and the presence of pain does not necessarily indicate that healing is not progressing normally. In fact, other than the numbness that you mention (also not uncommon), there is nothing in your description that arouses any suspicion of abnormal healing.
The whitish blob to which you refer may either be a bit of exuberant granulation tissue formation, or simply a piece of blood clot that has bleached white from exposure to saliva. The only thing that would indicate a serious complication would be signs of infection-- swelling, exudate, fever, etc., and these are notably absent from your narrative.
Nonetheless, it would be appropriate to contact your dentist for assistance in managing your pain. This is an obligation of your dentist, for whom normal postoperative support is an integral part of the extraction service. You may need a prescription for stronger pain medication, or you may need a sedative dressing placed in the surgical wound if it is determined that you have a dry socket.
To sum up, your complaint doesn't sound like there is anything serious going on, but your should call your dentist for assistance so that your healing process can proceed more tolerably.
Good luck!
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Mark Bornfeld DDS